The survival of any family-owned business goes much deeper than the traditional governance model. It requires an emotional and relational investment by everyone involved, in order to create a safe space for truthful conversations to be had without fear of repercussion.
Just like much of the world, I too have been reflecting on the sad passing of Queen Elizabeth II. Whilst this is a truly historical moment for the entire world, times like these that can trigger feelings and emotions much closer to home. It can, however, also be a time for healing and perspective.
One of the fundamental barriers to having healthy relationships with ourselves and others, is our inbuilt desire to ‘fit in.’ We naturally seek people and places where we feel we ‘fit’ but as I have discovered there is huge difference between ‘fitting’ and ‘belonging.’
This is a story rich in learning from one of our team members, Mateo. It is a journey of self-development, new experiences and fresh perspectives. It is also a valuable reminder for us all to continue to challenge our own purpose and contribution in the world.
Making assumptions about someone is never a good idea, and can lead to a whole heap of unnecessary thoughts and behaviours. When we take the time to invest in meaningful conversations, we are rewarded with a completely fresh perspective and understanding.
Living in a lie is hard. One lie, creates another and another, and before you know it you are in chaos. When we are afraid to be honest with those closest around us, we find ourselves in conflict…not just with ourselves, but with every relationship we encounter.
